Tutorial: Winning an argument

Has it ever happened to you that you are involved in a discussion and find yourself losing? Amidst the barrage of rationalities and facts (true ones, not alternative), you find yourself helpless and in disdain? If yes, here are some ways which will help you bounce back and claim the victory.

Appeal to Authority: “Generic quote.” - some great man 

Oh yeah, that’s right. Use a quote. Do you know what it means? It basically means that you don’t need to say anything else. The quote says it all. It proves that you are right and the other person is wrong. If they question the quote, condemn them for questioning the intellect and stature of the great man; if they don’t, well, you have already won anyway.

Anecdotal Evidence: "Share an anecdote which is in line with your point. Then substantiate and extend it to the entire human race. Based on this, you win."

Forget data and stats. If you can recall any anecdote in line with your point of argument, use it and if you don't have one, it doesn't take much time to create one. Your anecdote is indeed the normal and not what the data for 7.2 billion people says. Stay confident. Brownie points for sharing an emotional story. 

Repeat the other person

This is the best. This doesn't just help you come out at the top, it irritates the other person like nothing else. Here's an exhibit. 

"So, what is the reason behind cash crunch?"

Him: "The DEA has said it's because of an unexpected surge in demand for cash." 

You: "No. This is not the reason. It's because blah blah. Blah Blah Blah! Blah blah. Blah BLAH BLAH BLAH!. So yes, the demand has increased and that has led to the cash crunch."

Him: "And what did I say!'

You:

If you come across such arguments in a discussion, make a mental note of who to stay away from! 

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